Have you ever...

Friday, July 14th, 2006
9:09 pm    
Have you ever...
Have you ever... 

accidentally dated someone? Maybe you were not aware the other person thought you were dating, but you did not think you were?

Pet Peeves

Pet Peeves

People who cannot follow directions.

Men that read this page and say a woman with so many pet peeves has issues. That's because the man stating that is looking for a subservient woman who cannot think for herself and does most of the things listed on this page. Most of us all have the same peeves. I just happen to vocalize mine to avoid confusion.

People that can`t respect the fact that I am very blunt.

Men that insist on calling me "hun", "baby", or "sexy" as a name. I'm not an object. I am a woman with values and morals.

Men writing to me assuming that since they find me attractive that I am down for freakin. I am not. I am abstinent so don`t write to me and say, "I`m going to bein town. Hit me off to let me know if you are down with getting freaky. Maybe we could go for drinks." I am not a drinker and I respect my body as well as GOD!

People that say they want to know more about me when my link is provided above. That would be proof that men only shop on the internet as in a meat market and don`t read the label, only admire the package, showing a sign of ignorance. My profile pages are quite comprehensive and provide a general overview of myself and what my ideals are with respect to life, issues, friends, work, etc. Don't be lazy. Read.

Ignorance. There is no reason to not educate yourself. 

Men that know I won`t have sex with them and they say they would refuse it if I offered, then 20 minutes later they say they want to make love to me. 

Men that tell me I need sex. Why? Show me where it expressly states in the Bible that fornication is mandatory to live a happy, peaceful, successful life.

Men that tell me I need a man in my life. I am secure in my life that I need only myself and GOD. A man will always be third in my life and never first or second.

Men that are over 40 asking me out or the men that received their PhD or JD the year I was born, talking about how they want a pretty little wife like me to marry. Got two words: R. Kelly.

Men that say, "Don`t you think it is selfish to not want to offer a man a child?" Don`t you think it is selfish to ask a woman to go through the physical drama of carrying a parasite for nine months, go through bodily contortions, puke her guts out, get fat, and suffer from the emotional distress of child bearing? What about those opinionated DJ's at 102 Jamz stating they think it is only nine months and a woman should involve the man in her decision to carry this life. I don't see any of you missing work going to office visits every other week, missing six weeks of work after childbirth, having stretchmarks and suffering hormonal problems. Maybe those DJ's should educate themselves before they talk about things of which they have no first hand knowledge. I already have a child. What you are looking for is a servile, docile woman that will bend over backwards to be submissive and succomb to all of your "needs" so you can keep control over her by knocking her up and rendering her helpless and defenseless. How about you carry the child and see how well you handle it. Adoption. Ever hear of it?

Men that offer me the world just because they have an ulterior motive. 

People assuming I am hispanic and I speak Spanish.

People that assume my roots are from the Islands that I must be into Hinduism and Carnival. 

Women in clubs that give me dirty looks for my mere existence. 

People that don`t make their children wear safety belts.

Idle conversation about NOTHING just because people feel uncomfortable with silence.

Small talk in elevators. Insincerity. Why ask about the weather? That is trivial and meaningless.

People that try and tell me how bitter and angry I am at the world. If we didn`t have to deal with racism, ignorance or people that just like to aggravate others then I wouldn`t be so hard core. It's not my fault you are uncomfortable with my. Newsflash, the truth hurts! It's a cold, cruel world we live in people. Deal with it.

Men that shop on the internet like its a meat market, pick out the pretty girls, write to them then not even send a photo. It isn`t fair to us that you know what we look like and we don`t know what you look like. For all we know, you could be some psycho stalker with our picture posted all over your walls. Been there, done that. It isn`t fun being stalked. 

Men that write to me asking me to send them a photo. Why? So you know what I look like? Can you not see the photos on this site? An autographed 8"x10" is $10.00, a portion of which is donated to a charitable cause.

Ebonics. Get over it! Minorities, especially blacks, wonder why caucasians ASSUME we are all uneducated morons. Speak properly. It's all good. I speak it with my friends, but not because I don't know no better.

Manners. I used to be a bouncer at a night club. Some people leave their manners at home when they step outside. Stop giving racists a reason to look down on us! Right, Cherie Miller & Jimmy Pugh?

Men that write telling me, "I`ve been looking for you." "You are perfect." "You`ve been looking for me." "I fit every one of your qualifications." Well, now that you have found me, do you really know how to keep me around?

People that tell me I am racist because I prefer big, bald, buff, beautiful, black men. Some people have a thing for blondes. Some people have a thing for butts. I have a weakness for sexy, fine black men.

Stop writing and initially calling me "sexy" or "boo". I am a woman. Get it? I am a human being, not an object. Get a clue!

I am not your honey, sweetie, baby, boo, princess, sexy, or any other derogatory comment signifying that you think of me as an object. You want a name to call me? "Ice." 

Use of ebonics or profanity is the sign of a weak mind which is satan`s workshop.

Woman who do not believe I do not have sex. Just because you can't keep your legs shut, doesn't mean I cannot.

People who assume just because a woman is a single mother that she engages in sexual activities. Newsflash, there are some women who conceived under circumstances beyond their control. Just because the others that do not understand are loose and easy, does not mean the all females are.

Males who say, "I'm going to be in town next weekend. Let's hook up." Translation: "I'm looking for a piece of @$$." My response, "I'm not tour guide Barbie. Call Heide Fleiss."

Pick up lines...

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 19, 2010

Pick up lines...

9:05 pm    
Pick up lines...
I was out last night with a hot female friend of mine. This guy named Steven, 47 years old, from New York, allegedly owns a shutter business, attempted to engage in what he might have construed as flirting with me.

Here are some of the things he said:

If you’d shut the eff up, you’d be hot.

I just want to eff your brains out and effing leave you there.

I want to rape you.

You’d be wild if you did a line of coke.

Let’s get some weed.

Come on guys. Do you honestly think that’s the way to get women? It’s not like he said any of that just once. He kept repeating it over and over again for about an hour.

Those “lines” don’t work! Especially if you want to get someone decent, respectable, and classy.

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paul said...

lame pick up that actually worked --- too bad

Just turning 40, i had always been very shy, but after going through a divorce, i decided to make real efforts at becoming more outgoing.
At a local spot, i watched as a very attractive woman shot down a string of guys. I set meeting and talking to her as a personal challenge.
my line " I have been seeing a therapist to help me get over my shyness. He told me I had to meet at least one new person a day, today it is your turn"
she invited me to sit and have a drink with her. she had no personality and i finally got up and went back to sit with my friends.

Acually,that is the only time i have used a line. usually i just walk up and say something honest and go from there. usually i will try to sit near a woman i am not attracted to, and have pleasant conversation. when people see you enjoying yourself, they gravitate towards you, and it all is very natural to meet someone.

12/25/2010 08:17:00 PM

To kiss or not to kiss. That is the question.

9:05 pm    
Who's responsibility is it?
To kiss or not to kiss. That is the question.

1. Is it appropriate to kiss on a first date?
2. If so, who's responsibility is it to initiate that first kiss on a first date?

What are we seeking?

What are we seeking?

Monday, January 2nd, 2006
4:27 pm    
What are we seeking?
As we enter the new year, are you looking for relationships or has the ship sailed, leaving you only seeking relations?

What do men and women want? What do girls and guys want? Do we really want anything at all other than not to be lonely this year? 

Current Mood:  pensive

A little about the author of this blog...

SUNDAY, DECEMBER 19, 2010

Here's a little about me...

Thursday, November 4th, 2004
11:51 pm    
Here's a little about me...
Name: Ice. Is that so hard? At least it's not River, Portia, Jesus, Bentley, 2 Pac, Snoop Dogg...
Age: Over 23
Birthday: 12/12
Favorite Color: Purple

Match Experience:
"Flirt with me."
Sorry, don't do that. Girls use that tool to compensate for a lack of substance as they have no other resources to capture attention. It is a game.

"I asked you to flirt."
If you need to be flirted with, then you must have a low self esteem and need attention.

"Why are you single?"
Because I'm psychotic and was just released on parole. Really, how stupid is that question? It really means, "You are too attractive to be single. What's wrong with you?" I like being single. When a person can find spiritual fulfillment within him/herself, that is when the person can truly be happy with another.

"What do you do?"
I play on the computer to solicit people to annoy me. No, seriously, I'm a litigation paralegal, full-time college student, makeup artist, photographer, and volunteer.

"What do you do for fun?"
My photography and poetry are expressions of life and emotions. That is what I do for fun.

"What do you do when you go out?"
Movies, dining, dancing, miniature golf, that sort of thing.

"What motivates you?"
Me and GOD. I do not need external motivation.

"Why are you abstinent?"
Sex is not a requirement to sustain a healthy lifestyle. There are many diseases and such that can penetrate a condom. A few seconds of pleasure is not worth a lifetime of grief. In addition, I have not met the right person with whom I would like to share that spiritual bond.

No means no. Asserting my right to say "no" does not make me anything derogatory.

"Why do you want to learn to play golf?"
I've wanted to learn since 1998 because it is a sport that requires more mental ability than physical and a very strong discipline.

"Are you a model?"
Why? If I was not, would you still be interested? If I was, is that the only reason you are interested? That is the lamest pick up line ever! Everyone in Florida claims to have been a model at some point and time in his/her life.

"Why do you not want to have kids?"
There are so many problems with over population and homeless children that have been abandoned or abused. Why be selfish by not providing those children with homes?

"You're pretty!"
I know I'm not ugly, but I do not consider myself pretty so I feel 1) that comment is a lie, 2) it's a line, 3) it is indicative of your intentions, and 4) it shows you are not interested in the person, but only the look.

Flattery
I am secure in myself that I do not need to be flattered. Anyone who needs flattery has a low self esteem. Whether or not you think I'm "pretty" or anything else, has no bearing on my life or my self-esteem. I like me. I am happy with me.

"Why are you so bitter?"
It's called reality, not being bitter. People who call me bitter have difficulties accepting reality. I am extremely blunt and I do not sugar coat anything. I know what I want.

"What kind of relationship are you seeking?"
I am looking to meet new people and make friends. The best of friends become the best of mates. I'm not looking for sex or a husband. I look around me at all of the females my age searching desperately for a husband. Not me. When the time is right, it will happen. Until then, it doesn't hurt to have lots of friends and enjoy life!

Stay tuned for more things not to say to me... 

Current Mood:  hyper

I like your profile

Really? That's it? That's your entire opening and conversation? Did you read it?

Men, ladies want to know what you like specifically about their profiles. What peaks your interests? What about them compelled you to write? Women want to be respected for their minds. Their bodies are merely benefits to those they deem worthy.

Skue on OK Cupid

A little desperation never hurt anyone

Solarenergy on OK Cupid sounds a little desperate to me... Very much wanting to be friends and offering not to rush to be more.

Yes, when you find someone great, you should try to hold onto him/her. Don't scare him/her away! Just say a little about yourself and let everything else just fall into place.

jblu7 OK Cupid

If you have to go around announcing you're a good guy, how good are you really? You sound bitter. Maybe if you stopped chasing after "hot chicks," you wouldn't get burned.

We all have a level of shallow. Mine is for intelligence. Yours is for attraction. Try selecting females who will appreciate you as opposed to whom you find initially physically attractive. Women can find beauty in physically unappealing men. Males find that more difficult of a task.