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If you have to go around announcing you're a good guy, how good are you really? You sound bitter. Maybe if you stopped chasing after "hot chicks," you wouldn't get burned.

We all have a level of shallow. Mine is for intelligence. Yours is for attraction. Try selecting females who will appreciate you as opposed to whom you find initially physically attractive. Women can find beauty in physically unappealing men. Males find that more difficult of a task.